I’m putting this forth to the myriad of followers I have, as well as anyone who stops by. I’m kind of at a loss and need to figure it out.
So, the Sister was in a pretty toxic relationship until recently. And when I say that the relationship was toxic, I’m not really exaggerating. The two of them together were just not made for each other. Case in point, we refer to the guy in question as Demon Boy and I’m 95% positive that he’s a psychic vampire in the worst possible sense. He’s got this whole aura thing that draws negativity toward him like a moth to a flame. There was this, like, energy nexus in their shared living room that left anyone in the house unable to do anything but think about taking a nap and I think it was due to this “dabbling.” Anyway, neither here nor there. Let’s move on.
It’s been a long, long, long, long, long five or six years (seven?) in dealing with the detrimental connection the two of them have with one another. The Sister has been very good about severing all ties with him, but he has this way about him that draws her back in. I’ve been holding her hand and yelling at her and informing her and holding her hand and threatening Demon Boy and anything I can think of to sever the connection between them. She’s finally at the point where everything she had that reminded her of him is gone from her home and her life. And he has effectively disappeared from her life: no more calls, no more dreams, no more black link between the two. (What I mean by the is that, accidentally, we stumbled upon an actual psychic connection between the two of them, still, some time back. We’ve been trying to cut the cord ever since.) So, he’s been gone and all of his things, too.
Except that she recently found the pink quartz heart he gave her for Valentine’s Day once after swearing up and down, ten ways to Sunday, that she had rid herself of said heart. It’s currently in a heart shaped box (I laughed when she told me this, hysterically, as I sang Nirvana lyrics at her), waiting for me to get my hands on it. She dumped salt all over it to deter any negative energy that Demon Boy may still have in connection with it or whatever. This is about as far as we’ve gone with it because I don’t know what to do.
I strongly believe that the guy has a hold on her and considering how many times we’ve thrown the heart away, left it behind, and tossed it out with the trash… It just keeps coming back like that cat. But, I don’t know how to destroy whatever the fuck he’s done to it. I don’t know how to fix this. I know that salt will dampen or deter or whatever negative energy. I’m worried about smashing it with a hammer (though I so-so-so want to) because of any negative backlash that may happen. I’ve considered burying it, although I’m not really sure where to do that (cemetery? backyard? by a river? in the woods?) and so, I pose the question to you guys.
What the fuck do I do with this thing? How do I get rid of it without bringing backlash to The Sister? And seriously, can I hammer it to death? I so will.